Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Pride

Anyone who has listened to what God has to say on the subject of pride is aware that His perspective is completely alien to our own. Our wisdom has sayings such as "Keep your head up" and " They can take everything from you but your pride". A merely human view equates pride with a love of one's self and sees it as an essential foundation of loving others. However, without God, acts of loving and giving become choices to be weighed in the balances. Without God, our first priority is always ourselves. Without God, our own needs always outweigh our available resourses, therefore the needs of others get left behind.

Anger and resentment are the harvest of a world of neediness. In this enviroment of brutal competition, pride is a defense mechanism. It is how I tell myself that I am better than you. It is why I see myself as more worthy and deserving of your love and devotion than you are worthy and deserving of mine. Pride is my wall of protection around my pain and vulnerability so I can keep you from robbing me of my resources. Pride's operational dysfunction is it's isolationist agenda.

Such a worldview sees God at the top of the heap of evildoers, who by virtue of a strength greater than our own, makes arrogant demands of us. Unfortunately, when we chose to shut God out , we imprison ourselves in an abject poverty of existence, in a living death. A natural mind cannot, on its own, comprehend the principals of the realities of God. Him who's heart is a fortress of pride will not yield to love in the face of all the persuasions at the disposal of diety.

This is the reality of who God is, that He made Himself into nothing and took on the form of a servant, the form of a man. As a man, he was obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross! (Phil 2:8,9) This is the mind of Christ, that when he gave a demonstration how we are to treat each other, he washed the feet of his disciples! This is the way He works, when he informed His disciples that the one who wants to be first in His kingdom must be the servant of all the others, as Jesus Himself is.

God says that He mocks proud mockers but gives grace to the humble. (Proverbs 3:34) If He allows us to reap the bitter harvest of pride while we yet draw breath, then He will be assisting us to open our eyes to our lifeless condition so we may approach Him with humility (to learn from Him). Perhaps He might grant us a glimpse of the depthless value of this love that He offers us! Perhaps we might learn to imitate this inexhaustible fountainhead of love and humility.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Very well put, I enjoyed your analogies and the way you broke down the definition of pride. I also like how you alluded it to be a mere defense mechanism. Perhaps though you might like to explore the positive attributes pride can bring as well i.e. pride in having a gracious, loving, and all powerful God, or pride in being a faithful servant for the Lord

<3 Em

bvaliant4him said...

The point of this blog is that pride is antethema to God. We remove ourselves from grace(undeserved merit) in its exercise.Proverbs 16:18 To God, pride is not positive.

Anonymous said...

I like it mom, a lot, for the first time i wasn't overwhelmed with words i had to look up. i like how you pin pointed how pride is a protection, and how pride has a earthly meaning, which is opposite of what Christ showed. Humility was a wise words to use. Great scriptures used as well. -Goo

bvaliant4him said...

Emily
Perhaps the "positive attributes of pride" that you are alluding to could be better served with the words gratitude, joy, and satisfaction, whereas the word pride is synonymous with arrogance.

Anonymous said...

Maybe, but I think the definition of pride is different for a lot of people just as the words "freedom" "love", are etc. It is a word that is often loosely interpreted according to experiences, knowledge and culture.

From Mario-What about Pride in your country, pride in your work these are all "good" forms of pride...let me ask you one question, are you PROUD to be an American or are you ARROGANT to be an American?

bvaliant4him said...

I'm not saying that the positive feelings being mentioned are BAD things. This blog is about what GOD thinks of pride, which is more important that what WE think of it.

bvaliant4him said...

And we have absolutely nothing of which we can be proud of when we are in the presence of God.